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After 20 years, Tina decided take her young children and leave an unhealthy marriage. At this same time, her job of 15 years was eliminated. Going from married with two incomes, Tina was now a single parent with no income and added legal expenses. Exhausting her savings and struggling to maintain any sort of normalcy for her children, Tina came to Bluffton Self Help (BSH) to meet the most basic need, food, in order to feed herself and children. Once she engaged with BSH she learned of other programs we offer that could help her and her children through this difficult time. Tina applied for financial assistance to help pay her rent. She also utilized services provided by the Education and Resource Center to create a resume and apply for jobs. In the 30 days Tina was involved with Bluffton Self Help she was able to receive support with basic necessities and the tools she needed during a difficult time in order to make a fresh start for her children. Tina was assisted with her rent which prevented eviction and the possibility of facing homelessness. One eviction can many times push families into homelessness, landlords refuse to rent to those with past evictions further reducing the already small pool of affordable rentals. Bluffton Self Help also allowed Tina to cut expenses and drastically stretch her budget through regular visits to the Wellness Food Pantry, shopping for food and clothing at the Confidence Clothing Closet. She has also received a full-time employment position and began working again through the support offered at the Education & Resource Center. Tina reported that the assistance provided by BSH has helped lower her stress and allowed her to follow through on daily activities. She and her husband are now divorced, he is paying child support and again involved with their children’s care. Tina has started working and loves her new job! She feels a huge sense of relief knowing she is close to being caught up on her bills. Tina and her children are adjusting to their new normalcy.

SUMMER HUNGER | A Letter from our Executive Director Hunger in our area is changing and affects all walks of life. Even with an economic upswing and low unemployment – stagnant jobs, rising cost of living and unemployment all play a factor in the changing face of hunger. Many of us are just one crisis, one job loss or health issue away from food insecurity. Families that live paycheck to paycheck can become food insecure overnight, meaning they may not know where their next meal is coming from. These families are forced to make difficult decisions, deciding between putting food in the fridge and healthcare; gas to get to work and breakfast for their kids; a healthy balanced meal or paying an electric bill. South Carolina has established a self-sufficiency standard. This is the cost for a family to make ends meet in our community, also known as livable wage. According to a study by South Carolina Association of United Way, the livable wage in Beaufort County for one adult and one preschooler is $18.32/hour. This wage changes based on the size of the family. It’s estimated that approximately 50% of our Bluffton population is working at or below this livable wage, putting families and children at risk for food insecurity.
Summer can cause an increase in costs for families seeking childcare as well as a decrease in support for families receiving free and reduced lunch at area schools. Last summer, Bluffton Self Help supported 95 kids on average, every month. We are on a mission to break the cycle of poverty in our community and more importantly compact food insecurity for families, seniors, children and adults. Fortunately, the rate of food insecurity continues to decrease because of donors and supporters like you. We depend on the Bluffton community for support to operate our Wellness Food Pantry with financial donations, volunteers and food drives. Thanks to you more than 2,100 residents in Bluffton had access to healthy, fresh, nutritious food. Keep supporting our mission and share with others because together we ARE making a difference in our community.

Together we can STAMP OUT HUNGER! Please help us reach our goal of 100,000 lbs of food for neighbors in need. This goal will help to sustain us through the demanding summer and unsure fall season here in the Lowcountry. The annual Postal Food Drive is Saturday, May 11th. Our goal this year is 100,000 lbs. which will be the largest Postal Food Drive in Bluffton Self Help history. With a community like you we know we can reach this goal. Get our community involved by sharing this flyer with your friends and family on social media; invite your co-workers by sharing via email or print it out and place it in your office; share the information on your community Facebook or NextDoor page. We are also looking for volunteers and would love for our community to post flyers/posters up in your community or business. For more information please contact Tonya at 843-757-8000 ext 2205.

When I look back at accomplishments made in the town of Bluffton, there are many, but one major accomplishment was recognizing one of the most amazing woman I know, and that is Ida Martin. Very rarely are acknowledgements made to the living, and as I have heard often, “we should give flowers to the living as often as we do in memory of others”. So it was a pleasure to recognize and honor a role model for others, on her birthday, with a day in Ida Martins honor. April 4 has been celebrated for many years, and the fact that for some of those years, Mrs Ida was here to see how grateful so many of are, is very special.
Bluffton Self Help is taking off and doing exactly what Mrs. Ida Martin expected. Mrs Ida knew a long time ago to ensure the success and stability of Bluffton Self Help, she would need to expand the circle of supporters to include ‘new’ faces as well as younger faces. This was quickly accomplished and today we see the benefits from the work she did to have a well rounded, diverse board. So many people today don’t have the privilege of personally knowing Ida Martin, and for that I am sad, but the fact that they carry on her mission and continue to honor her on her ‘special day’ fills my heart with great joy. On a personal note, Mrs Ida was one of the first Bluffton residents I met once elected to the town council. She along with several other female leaders in this town took me under their wing, and always kept me on track, while not hesitating to be vocal on issues that they felt I needed to be aware of. Very few of these ladies are still alive today, but I will always cherish and respect them as I continue to be Mayor of this wonderful town. She truly is smiling from above on all Bluffton Self Help and this town has accomplished.

Wendy, a mother with two young children, started coming to the Education and Resource Center in September. Her goals were to strengthen her English and computer skills in order to be able to help her first grade son with his school work. Together, our Education & Resource Center manager and Wendy found a program on the computer that she was able to practice and strengthen both skills at the same time. Wendy became a regular, visiting The Center 2 to 3 times per week, determined to reach her goal. She also became an active member in the English class every Monday held at the Education & Resource Center (ERC). Wendy was so excited about her progress she began telling others about the ERC and encouraged them to attend the ESL classes and ERC to strengthen their skills as well. A couple of her classmates took her suggestion and visited The Center to use the computers. She was eager to teach her friends what she had learned and was enthusiastic to help. Wendy met one older woman who had no transportation but was interested in attending workshops and classes at the Education & Resource Center. Wendy offered to pick her up when she was close by and bring her to The Center to give her the opportunity to take advantage of our programs. Impressed by Wendy’s motivation to learn and share her knowledge, we asked her to become a Bluffton Self Help volunteer- which she gratefully accepted! During the past few months, Wendy has not only become an extremely valuable volunteer of the Education & Resource Center, but she is a valuable volunteer to other Bluffton Self Help programs. During the Christmas Holiday Toy Shop she worked tirelessly to help to keep the toys organized. Between all of her stocking and organizing, she translated and made the whole shopping experience that much more enjoyable for all of our shoppers!

“Seeing first timers’ reactions are priceless. It is such a nice feeling to help take care of kids that otherwise would not be receiving toys for the holidays.” -Rich, Volunteer During the holidays, we collect toys from many of our community partners and local organizations such as Hampton Hall, Collins Group Realty, Hampton Lake, Bluffton Police Department and Fire Department, Water Lily Cove, Berkley Hall, Moss Creek, Colleton River, WSAV, WalMart, Sun City, Dude’s Bike Run and more. It truly is a community effort to ensure every family has something under the tree. Local groups and businesses organize toy drives asking for new toys for children ages up to 12 years old. And our generous community answers the call; delivering toys to their mailboxes, decorated boxes located at their gym, clubhouse or office. They then deliver the donated toys to Bluffton Self Help to stock up our “Toy Shop!” After Thanksgiving, half of Bluffton Self Help’s building is transformed into a toy shop, just like the North Pole. The Toy Shop is organized by age and consists of games, clothing, stocking stuffers and more. A few weeks before Christmas, parents are able to come shop for gifts for each of their children. Our volunteers act as Santa’s helpers and guide the parents through the “Toy Shop.” Each parent leaves joyfully, knowing their children will be have a smile on their face Christmas morning. Thank you to each and every one of you who continues year after year to make our Toy Shop a reality! The businesses, volunteers, police departments, news stations and community members all come together to ensure every child has excitement on their face and in their heart on Christmas morning.